Sad News

It is with great sadness that I write this.

After a short but difficult struggle with lung cancer, Amy’s dad Rene passed away on Dec. 19th. When I say short, it was really short. We were just camping with him in August! He had a backache at the time (and had back problems since early May), but thought it was a result of some work he had done around the house. And in fact, that’s how the doctors were treating it – with muscle relaxers. It wasn’t until late August that he had an x-ray and they discovered some spots that might be cancerous. That suspicion was confirmed in September as he was checked into Wake Forest Baptist Medical Center in Winston Salem NC. He never went home again. From the hospital he went to a nursing home for rehabilitation, and eventually to the VA Hospice in Salisbury NC.

I will say this about my father-in-law: he was one of the kindest, gentlest and most sincere people I have ever met. He was a good man and he’ll be missed. I hate that our kids have been robbed of both of their grandfathers now but I’m really very grateful for the example that he was to them. I’m grateful for the example he was to me.

Rene, we love you and miss you.

This picture was taken in Aug. 2008 at one of our annual camping trips to Cade’s Cove.

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